I realize from my own experiences in Life, that it just is not possible to get along with everyone. And that some people seem to go out of their way to be, lets face it, impossible, regardless of whom they are dealing with. But with all of the terrible things our society faces today, why do some refuse to even try to be civil?
I find it amazing how one crime involving law enforcement and people of colour is reported, then it becomes a weekly thing. Mistakes can be made, but when a person points a gun at a police officer, what exactly do they think is going to happen? Whether they feel threatened, or plan to shoot, they could be killed. It only stands to reason.
People should be able to own guns, if that is their preference, but they should not indiscriminately wave them about. If you don't plan to use that gun, keep it out of sight. Just having it visible, could get you, or someone else, killed. You are armed, you could be dangerous.
A town about forty miles from us has had shootings nearly every night for months. Several people have been killed, innocents injured, and the cops have their hands full investigating the crime scenes, and finding suspects. No sooner do they solve one case, then new shots are fired, someone else is killed, or injured, and they have a new mystery to solve.
Where do these things end? Or do they continue to escalate? I'm not really a people person, but I don't understand how anyone could shoot another. Particularly if there were innocent bystanders within the line of fire. We all feel pain, and hurt, in similar ways, being human. Inflicting undue suffering on another cannot be considered a good thing. Maybe these people, who do so, need to think about the possible consequences of their actions. Just my thoughts.
Monday, December 29, 2014
Sunday, December 7, 2014
A Waste?
In this day and age of high tech, every gizmo imaginable to look stuff up, go to school, educate yourself on nearly anything. I just don't understand why we are turning out so many young people unequipped for the work a day world. What do they do in school? Visit? Text? Sleep? Too many extracurricular activities? Too many sports? I don't get it. Are that many really throwing away their youth, when their minds are sharp, their memories good, and with nearly every opportunity anyone could ever want? Such a waste.
What do the schools do with all of this money, that so many districts have massive budget deficits? I don't even pretend to understand the financial world, or everything that has to come together to fund any institution, government, or business, for that matter. But I would certainly think they'd have to be held accountable for their actions. And how do they keep on getting by without producing a quality product for the money they receive?
If no child is supposed to be left behind, what are we talking, the ability to read, write, and count? What about some kind of skills? How are they going to support themselves, and maybe a family, one day? Mom and Dad aren't going to be around forever, and many don't even have that luxury to depend on. And most certainly, not forever, anyway. I still have to wonder, what are they teaching them in school? And why is it not sufficient to help them get good employment once they complete their education?
Personally, I think young people, and those supposedly qualified to guide them in their future choices, really need to research higher education, where they want to settle, and what kind of work is there. With the sky rocketing cost of college, and universities, they'd be a fool not to. If you aren't going to be able to support yourself on what you've chosen, how are those astronomical debts going to be paid? Older parents should not be saddled with the debt their offspring incur, unless they are well off, as many are not. And not really then. Once again, just my thoughts, out here in the country.
What do the schools do with all of this money, that so many districts have massive budget deficits? I don't even pretend to understand the financial world, or everything that has to come together to fund any institution, government, or business, for that matter. But I would certainly think they'd have to be held accountable for their actions. And how do they keep on getting by without producing a quality product for the money they receive?
If no child is supposed to be left behind, what are we talking, the ability to read, write, and count? What about some kind of skills? How are they going to support themselves, and maybe a family, one day? Mom and Dad aren't going to be around forever, and many don't even have that luxury to depend on. And most certainly, not forever, anyway. I still have to wonder, what are they teaching them in school? And why is it not sufficient to help them get good employment once they complete their education?
Personally, I think young people, and those supposedly qualified to guide them in their future choices, really need to research higher education, where they want to settle, and what kind of work is there. With the sky rocketing cost of college, and universities, they'd be a fool not to. If you aren't going to be able to support yourself on what you've chosen, how are those astronomical debts going to be paid? Older parents should not be saddled with the debt their offspring incur, unless they are well off, as many are not. And not really then. Once again, just my thoughts, out here in the country.
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Thursday, December 4, 2014
Above Reproach?
Over the past couple of months, in a nearby larger city, in three different instances, two on Thanksgiving Day, city policemen have broken the law. These community servants, supposedly above reproach, have killed an older woman, damaged a city fire truck, and brought about other damages to citizens', and city, vehicles. In two of the worst instances, the officers, one off duty at the time, were under the influence. One even tested double the acceptable reading by law on the breathalyzer.
What can these people be thinking? What kind of an example are they setting for the young and impressionable, and the public in general? At least two have been charged with DUI, and other offences. I realize we are all only human, and prone to mistakes, but when it puts your job, and those you serve, in danger, something is wrong with that picture. Fortunately, they have been removed from service, pending investigation, one it has been decided, did no wrong.
That was the longest ago incident. The Thanksgiving Day accidents' decisions are still pending. But one person died, I find it difficult to believe the other driver will get away unscathed. The one, who had only been on the force for about a month, and on his day off, hit a fire truck pulling into the station. That has to have resulted in significant damage, so I guess we'll see how that turns out. One can only hope these people ponder the damage they've done to others, and themselves, by their irresponsible actions.
It irritates me when such things occur, particularly when these people are supposed to look out for others, respond to public issues, and overall generally do the right thing. This makes me wonder what kind of people they are turning out at the police academy, and if those who hire need to check backgrounds more thoroughly. Three incidents inside of two months, one a repeat offender, in my opinion, that is not good. Although I know it is not the first time police officers have done wrong, the saying, bad cop, didn't just come out of thin air. Just my thoughts, out here in the country, hope they have better luck in the future.
What can these people be thinking? What kind of an example are they setting for the young and impressionable, and the public in general? At least two have been charged with DUI, and other offences. I realize we are all only human, and prone to mistakes, but when it puts your job, and those you serve, in danger, something is wrong with that picture. Fortunately, they have been removed from service, pending investigation, one it has been decided, did no wrong.
That was the longest ago incident. The Thanksgiving Day accidents' decisions are still pending. But one person died, I find it difficult to believe the other driver will get away unscathed. The one, who had only been on the force for about a month, and on his day off, hit a fire truck pulling into the station. That has to have resulted in significant damage, so I guess we'll see how that turns out. One can only hope these people ponder the damage they've done to others, and themselves, by their irresponsible actions.
It irritates me when such things occur, particularly when these people are supposed to look out for others, respond to public issues, and overall generally do the right thing. This makes me wonder what kind of people they are turning out at the police academy, and if those who hire need to check backgrounds more thoroughly. Three incidents inside of two months, one a repeat offender, in my opinion, that is not good. Although I know it is not the first time police officers have done wrong, the saying, bad cop, didn't just come out of thin air. Just my thoughts, out here in the country, hope they have better luck in the future.
Sunday, November 30, 2014
Enough Already
Hasn't Ferguson been in the news enough, haven't they done enough devastation to that town? I can understand that a grave injustice may have been done, but why destroy the town you live in, just to make a point? I don't know anything about the place, other than what I've heard and read. But those businesses ruined, are important to a town, and if the owner's choose not to, or cannot afford to rebuild, the town will be worse off than before.
In this day and age, it seems as though so many are ready to fly off the handle, and act irresponsibly, at the drop of a hat, over some perceived injustice. Without thinking about the possible devastating results of their actions. And what it could mean to their future, as in loss of freedom, serious injury, or even the destruction of people, or property. Sometimes there may be justification for what they've done, but usually not.
It is sad when children are injured, maimed, or killed. The younger, the sadder, because in most cases, what could they possibly have done to bring about such actions? Babies cry, children scream, holler, and tear about, never realizing how aggravating and annoying they may be. They are children, how could they?
But adults are supposed to know better, why does it seem like so many do not? To wreak havoc on innocents, and valuable properties, without a thought. What about the long range consequences of looting, burning, shooting and killing? A normal, logical person would not knowingly do something like that on a whim. I don't know a lot about the situation, and probably the young man deserved better.
Things like this make me wonder about the future of this country. We don't seem to be concerned enough about our own well-being. We need to raise our children properly, monitor their Internet usage, the acquaintances they keep, and what they do in their spare time. As parents it is our job to see to their proper upbringing, and present responsible, caring, and good, people to the world. Just my thoughts, out here in the country.
In this day and age, it seems as though so many are ready to fly off the handle, and act irresponsibly, at the drop of a hat, over some perceived injustice. Without thinking about the possible devastating results of their actions. And what it could mean to their future, as in loss of freedom, serious injury, or even the destruction of people, or property. Sometimes there may be justification for what they've done, but usually not.
It is sad when children are injured, maimed, or killed. The younger, the sadder, because in most cases, what could they possibly have done to bring about such actions? Babies cry, children scream, holler, and tear about, never realizing how aggravating and annoying they may be. They are children, how could they?
But adults are supposed to know better, why does it seem like so many do not? To wreak havoc on innocents, and valuable properties, without a thought. What about the long range consequences of looting, burning, shooting and killing? A normal, logical person would not knowingly do something like that on a whim. I don't know a lot about the situation, and probably the young man deserved better.
Things like this make me wonder about the future of this country. We don't seem to be concerned enough about our own well-being. We need to raise our children properly, monitor their Internet usage, the acquaintances they keep, and what they do in their spare time. As parents it is our job to see to their proper upbringing, and present responsible, caring, and good, people to the world. Just my thoughts, out here in the country.
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Saturday, November 22, 2014
Unfortunate vs Fortunate
I'm afraid I do not understand how the new insurance program is supposed to help this country. All I hear on the news is how premiums are going up, as are the penalties, should you fail to enroll. How is that going to help anything? Health Insurance is already way too expensive, as is going to a doctor or into a hospital. Although I know from life experience, it is best, if you can find a way to afford it, to have insurance. Particularly if you are prone to illness, or heaven forbid, have some terrible disease that keeps you going back.
Its terrible how our government continues to fail the people. Whatever happened to doing what is best for our country as a whole? Of course its easy to sit back in their padded seats, on their cushy health care plans, pay checks, and every perk known to man, and ignore what is happening. Why does a supposedly intelligent country have children, elderly, former military, and other unfortunates, going without food, shelter, and health care? And how will that ever change, when our government seems more concerned about unrest in foreign countries, than what is going on in our own?
I guess I realize, to a point, the importance of trying to keep tabs on the world, when at any time we could be bombed, overtaken, or done some atrocious harm. But what about our own citizens? Don't we deserve better than what some of us are getting? I, personally, have been quite fortunate, after much back-breaking hard work, to always have some kind of an income, a decent roof over my head, and enough to eat. Many times I've had to scrimp, or choose one priority over another, but have managed to get by.
I cannot imagine what it must be like living in a cardboard box, under a bridge, sleeping in doorways, or in a shelter, just to have a safe place to rest and food to eat. All the while worrying over whether I'll live to see another day, because of cold weather, someone intent on doing me harm, or the lack of essentials to ensure good health.
Since not everyone can afford to help these people, hopefully, those who can, will. Feeling fortunate out here in the country, even with freezing rain, a foot of snow, and damp, chilly cold outside.
Its terrible how our government continues to fail the people. Whatever happened to doing what is best for our country as a whole? Of course its easy to sit back in their padded seats, on their cushy health care plans, pay checks, and every perk known to man, and ignore what is happening. Why does a supposedly intelligent country have children, elderly, former military, and other unfortunates, going without food, shelter, and health care? And how will that ever change, when our government seems more concerned about unrest in foreign countries, than what is going on in our own?
I guess I realize, to a point, the importance of trying to keep tabs on the world, when at any time we could be bombed, overtaken, or done some atrocious harm. But what about our own citizens? Don't we deserve better than what some of us are getting? I, personally, have been quite fortunate, after much back-breaking hard work, to always have some kind of an income, a decent roof over my head, and enough to eat. Many times I've had to scrimp, or choose one priority over another, but have managed to get by.
I cannot imagine what it must be like living in a cardboard box, under a bridge, sleeping in doorways, or in a shelter, just to have a safe place to rest and food to eat. All the while worrying over whether I'll live to see another day, because of cold weather, someone intent on doing me harm, or the lack of essentials to ensure good health.
Since not everyone can afford to help these people, hopefully, those who can, will. Feeling fortunate out here in the country, even with freezing rain, a foot of snow, and damp, chilly cold outside.
Tuesday, November 18, 2014
Pay Attention
More than one person I have talked to lately, has mentioned how people just do not pay attention any more. We've noticed it at fast food joints, and today my daughter was telling me about her huge annoyance of yesterday. She took her daughter to preschool around noon, she had to be at work at 1 p.m. And had told me a few days ago, about the 17th being school picture day, and how she had prepared her daughter well in advance to look nice.
During the ride to school, the little one had fallen asleep in her car seat. When they got to their destination, her mother carried her in, and handed her to a care worker. At which time, she had also handed her the paperwork, and check, for her picture order. She had even called before leaving home to make sure her daughter could still have her pictures taken later in the day, and been told yes. Then she headed off to work. She and her husband keep in contact at various times throughout the day. When she called him at home, after he had picked up their child, she asked him how the pictures went.
Immediately, she could tell he was ticked off. Apparently they had let my granddaughter sleep through the photograph session. Even after she had explicitly handed the person the paperwork and check, they had failed to have her picture taken. Needless to say, daddy had given them a piece of his mind, they had shut him off, and said they would take it up with her mother. He is not a fan of the woman he was talking to, and decided that was best.
Fortunately, the director was all apologetic, and has lined them up with a time to have them done. When she got home later, she looked inside her child's back pack for the check and paperwork. It wasn't the way she had handed it to the person, so apparently someone had looked at it to see whose back pack to put it in. Where was their mind when the photos were being done?
I realize people get involved in their busy lives, and things can crop up at any time to distract you. But, really? Like she said, people, at least do the job you are hired for. Even if you do nothing above and beyond, at least do that much. Forget about your phone, iPod, iPad, or whatever is on your mind, and take your responsibility seriously. If you are in a position of dealing with the public, they are your responsibility, and most deserve not to be taken lightly. Once again, my thoughts out here in the country.
During the ride to school, the little one had fallen asleep in her car seat. When they got to their destination, her mother carried her in, and handed her to a care worker. At which time, she had also handed her the paperwork, and check, for her picture order. She had even called before leaving home to make sure her daughter could still have her pictures taken later in the day, and been told yes. Then she headed off to work. She and her husband keep in contact at various times throughout the day. When she called him at home, after he had picked up their child, she asked him how the pictures went.
Immediately, she could tell he was ticked off. Apparently they had let my granddaughter sleep through the photograph session. Even after she had explicitly handed the person the paperwork and check, they had failed to have her picture taken. Needless to say, daddy had given them a piece of his mind, they had shut him off, and said they would take it up with her mother. He is not a fan of the woman he was talking to, and decided that was best.
Fortunately, the director was all apologetic, and has lined them up with a time to have them done. When she got home later, she looked inside her child's back pack for the check and paperwork. It wasn't the way she had handed it to the person, so apparently someone had looked at it to see whose back pack to put it in. Where was their mind when the photos were being done?
I realize people get involved in their busy lives, and things can crop up at any time to distract you. But, really? Like she said, people, at least do the job you are hired for. Even if you do nothing above and beyond, at least do that much. Forget about your phone, iPod, iPad, or whatever is on your mind, and take your responsibility seriously. If you are in a position of dealing with the public, they are your responsibility, and most deserve not to be taken lightly. Once again, my thoughts out here in the country.
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Saturday, October 18, 2014
Entitlement? Really?
Yesterday my daughter and I were talking about the "entitlement," in this country. She works for a high end, well-known, retailer, and has mentioned returning customers who own several expensive products from the company she works for. And some have children, or grand children, as young as eight, who also own, and are shopping for more of these costly accessories.
I don't get it. I have never owned a handbag that cost more than $25. Although I have worked for most of my life, I've never felt I needed to spend my hard earned money on ridiculously expensive items. Since she works there, occasionally receives team goal incentives from her employer, and an employee discount, she owns a couple of their pieces. When she buys, she waits for the best possible deal.
In her earlier working days, at other retailers, she used to get incensed by the teen-aged girls expecting their parents to buy them the best event gowns, and accessories, becoming petulant when they would not. Sure makes me wonder what ever happened to earning something because you really wanted, or needed it, and having that wonderful feeling of accomplishment, upon reaching that goal. My parents rarely bought me anything, just because I wanted it, or pitched a fit.
Like so many things in our modern society, the sense of entitlement among many of our young, I cannot see as a good thing. And I, for one, resent our government using the term for things many have, for years, worked hard to acquire once they are old enough. There is a huge difference between working your entire lifetime for something, and those expecting everything without lifting a finger to get it, or demanding someone get it for them.
Sure, many parents like to cater to their children, and that is their prerogative. But just to appease a petulant child, or teen, who makes demands in public, where a parent has little choice but to do what they want? I'm sorry, but NO. I believe a child needs discipline from the time they are big enough to understand Mom and Dad are the boss. Nip it in the bud while they are young, and as they grow.
These television shows kill me where the parents seek help because they cannot do anything with their child. Even to the point of being abused by them. I'm not saying it would be different in every case. But out here in the country, we expect chores to be done, manners to be used, and respect our elders and authority figures.
I don't get it. I have never owned a handbag that cost more than $25. Although I have worked for most of my life, I've never felt I needed to spend my hard earned money on ridiculously expensive items. Since she works there, occasionally receives team goal incentives from her employer, and an employee discount, she owns a couple of their pieces. When she buys, she waits for the best possible deal.
In her earlier working days, at other retailers, she used to get incensed by the teen-aged girls expecting their parents to buy them the best event gowns, and accessories, becoming petulant when they would not. Sure makes me wonder what ever happened to earning something because you really wanted, or needed it, and having that wonderful feeling of accomplishment, upon reaching that goal. My parents rarely bought me anything, just because I wanted it, or pitched a fit.
Like so many things in our modern society, the sense of entitlement among many of our young, I cannot see as a good thing. And I, for one, resent our government using the term for things many have, for years, worked hard to acquire once they are old enough. There is a huge difference between working your entire lifetime for something, and those expecting everything without lifting a finger to get it, or demanding someone get it for them.
Sure, many parents like to cater to their children, and that is their prerogative. But just to appease a petulant child, or teen, who makes demands in public, where a parent has little choice but to do what they want? I'm sorry, but NO. I believe a child needs discipline from the time they are big enough to understand Mom and Dad are the boss. Nip it in the bud while they are young, and as they grow.
These television shows kill me where the parents seek help because they cannot do anything with their child. Even to the point of being abused by them. I'm not saying it would be different in every case. But out here in the country, we expect chores to be done, manners to be used, and respect our elders and authority figures.
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Thursday, October 16, 2014
Overdoing It
Just my opinion, but I strongly believe we need to close our borders. Anyone in, or out, should be tested and certified safe to enter, before they are allowed on American soil. Every time we turn around, someone, or something, is endangering our citizens, or our country's well-being. I realize it would be extremely difficult to monitor ins, outs, and air space, but it seems like in this day and age, there must be a way.
It is mind boggling how quickly a disease could get out of hand, when you think about air travel. One person enters a plane, stays for hours, all inside breathe the same air. Then that person arrives at their destination, while endangering everyone on the plane, in the airport, and anyone they come into contact with. Then, should they be found seriously ill, those who transport them, the medical staff they are served by, and any who enter their space, could be in imminent danger.
I am no genius or scientist. But I think a lot of our problems could arise from our major obsession with not allowing our bodies, and consequently, immune systems, to come into contact with such things as germs. Without doing so, how do we build up immunity to things that may cause us harm? I know a relative degree of cleanliness, and good hygiene, are mandatory. But I think some carry it to extremes. If every human is continually shielded from, and deathly afraid of a little dirt, or a germ, how will our society ever survive?
In some ways, I believe my daughter is right, she says she is not going to keep her kids from getting a little dirty. She did, and I'm sure I did, as a child. I would think, in some ways, perpetually cleaning with harsh antibacterial products, would rank right up there with constantly sanitizing your hands, or over-using antibiotics. Wash them, sure, but are such extreme measures really necessary? Personally, I don't believe it has hurt either one of us, having been raised, and living, in the country. Where things may not always be immaculate, but so far, I've never run across anything that wouldn't eventually wash off.
It is mind boggling how quickly a disease could get out of hand, when you think about air travel. One person enters a plane, stays for hours, all inside breathe the same air. Then that person arrives at their destination, while endangering everyone on the plane, in the airport, and anyone they come into contact with. Then, should they be found seriously ill, those who transport them, the medical staff they are served by, and any who enter their space, could be in imminent danger.
I am no genius or scientist. But I think a lot of our problems could arise from our major obsession with not allowing our bodies, and consequently, immune systems, to come into contact with such things as germs. Without doing so, how do we build up immunity to things that may cause us harm? I know a relative degree of cleanliness, and good hygiene, are mandatory. But I think some carry it to extremes. If every human is continually shielded from, and deathly afraid of a little dirt, or a germ, how will our society ever survive?
In some ways, I believe my daughter is right, she says she is not going to keep her kids from getting a little dirty. She did, and I'm sure I did, as a child. I would think, in some ways, perpetually cleaning with harsh antibacterial products, would rank right up there with constantly sanitizing your hands, or over-using antibiotics. Wash them, sure, but are such extreme measures really necessary? Personally, I don't believe it has hurt either one of us, having been raised, and living, in the country. Where things may not always be immaculate, but so far, I've never run across anything that wouldn't eventually wash off.
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Wednesday, September 17, 2014
State of Unrest
Why is our country "expected" to pay for, and train foreigners to fight their own battles for their own country? Another one of the many things I just don't "get" out here in the country. I guess I have always lived under the assumption that countries pretty much took care of themselves. What ever happened to growing up with a kindred spirit of defending what is yours? Must be how far I am behind the times.
What really amazes me, is how immigrants from other countries come here to live, intent upon raising havoc with the country that "took them in." And inciting "supposed" Americans to join them in their misbegotten deeds. What are people thinking? Apparently, many citizens of this country aren't happy with the way things are going here. So maybe they think their lives will be better if they go somewhere else? Personally, I find that hard to believe, the way things are in the world today.
I realize many things are askew in this country. But could it really be better in some of the backward nations they portray on the world news? I'm sure we are all due some type of "comeuppance" one day. And maybe life as we know it, will never be the same. But I think I'll continue to take my chances right where I am. I may not be the smartest, or wisest person in the world, but I am also not the stupidest.
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What really amazes me, is how immigrants from other countries come here to live, intent upon raising havoc with the country that "took them in." And inciting "supposed" Americans to join them in their misbegotten deeds. What are people thinking? Apparently, many citizens of this country aren't happy with the way things are going here. So maybe they think their lives will be better if they go somewhere else? Personally, I find that hard to believe, the way things are in the world today.
I realize many things are askew in this country. But could it really be better in some of the backward nations they portray on the world news? I'm sure we are all due some type of "comeuppance" one day. And maybe life as we know it, will never be the same. But I think I'll continue to take my chances right where I am. I may not be the smartest, or wisest person in the world, but I am also not the stupidest.
Right now, I have it pretty darned good right here. I also know that is always subject to change. A person should never take good fortune for granted. Be thankful for it every day, and do your part to keep things going your way. Never fail to realize everything can change in the blink of an eye, without a moment's notice.
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Sunday, July 27, 2014
Send 'Em Back
So many times these days, it never ceases to amaze me the lows some people will stoop to in order to accomplish something. One thing that really gets me, is this immigration thing with all of the illegal children crossing our borders. What is this world coming to? Do some really consider their children that disposable? There is no way I could ever imagine sending my child/ren off on their own, to face Lord only knows what-? Sure conditions at home may not be all that great, horrible even, but wouldn't it still be better to know where they are? That they are safe?
I am a parent, and I know how tough it can be having your child out of your sight. How its not even easy to send them off to school, or even to a friend's house for the night, for the first time. But to actually send them off into the wilderness, travelling through who knows what kind of strangeness, where evil could be lurking behind the next bush. I guess I'll never understand some of the things that go on in today's world. And I certainly have not travelled much, or far, in my life. But I know uncertainty lies everywhere in this world of unrest.
Personally, I believe the powers that be, and those who patrol our borders, need to tidy these kids up, and send them back where they came from. How can our country be held responsible for the well-being of thousands of foreign children? Many who are probably sick or have health issues, and who probably in most cases, don't even speak our language. The entire scenario boggles my mind, as to how a situation like this could even be dealt with successfully.
It makes me wonder how actions like this ever got started. Did our government somehow inadvertently deliver an open invitation? I can understand how things are probably somewhat better in this country than others. But at the rate we are going, that may one day seriously change. Particularly if things like this continue. How can the working few continue to support more, and more, on the dole? It just is not possible. The buck has got to stop somewhere. Its bad enough that everything essential is going up, and up, in cost, nearly every day. Even out here in the country, we know a dollar can only be stretched so far, after taxes, and other things taken out before a worker even gets what is left of his pay check.
I am a parent, and I know how tough it can be having your child out of your sight. How its not even easy to send them off to school, or even to a friend's house for the night, for the first time. But to actually send them off into the wilderness, travelling through who knows what kind of strangeness, where evil could be lurking behind the next bush. I guess I'll never understand some of the things that go on in today's world. And I certainly have not travelled much, or far, in my life. But I know uncertainty lies everywhere in this world of unrest.
Personally, I believe the powers that be, and those who patrol our borders, need to tidy these kids up, and send them back where they came from. How can our country be held responsible for the well-being of thousands of foreign children? Many who are probably sick or have health issues, and who probably in most cases, don't even speak our language. The entire scenario boggles my mind, as to how a situation like this could even be dealt with successfully.
It makes me wonder how actions like this ever got started. Did our government somehow inadvertently deliver an open invitation? I can understand how things are probably somewhat better in this country than others. But at the rate we are going, that may one day seriously change. Particularly if things like this continue. How can the working few continue to support more, and more, on the dole? It just is not possible. The buck has got to stop somewhere. Its bad enough that everything essential is going up, and up, in cost, nearly every day. Even out here in the country, we know a dollar can only be stretched so far, after taxes, and other things taken out before a worker even gets what is left of his pay check.
Friday, June 20, 2014
Getting By
Sometimes it seems like there is so much going on in the world, I don't know how anyone keeps up. From huge sporting events, unrest in this, and foreign countries, wild and crazy weather and destruction across the nation, and as always, questionable proceedings within the US, and other, governments. I suppose everyone has those topics that interest them more than others, so they keep an eye on what is important to them. Then there are those who keep tuned in to the news stations throughout the day.
I don't mind listening to the occasional news, generally I do, but basically our local news, and once in awhile CNN or another world news channel. But there are some topics that honestly just don't grab my attention. Maybe I'm wrong, and should pay more attention to these things, but I must say, sometimes its very difficult. Usually when my husband is home, and has a day off, more often than not, he has one of several news channels on in the back ground while he goes about his day.
And sometimes it seems like it'll drive me crazy hearing it constantly, but occasionally I do pick up on something of interest and importance. But there is so much bad news, negativity, and doomsday information these days, it is hard to keep tuning in. Then the billions upon trillions of money doled out to foreign causes, while our own country continues to become worse off. The prices of food, housing, and necessities continue to rise, people are forced to work for a non-liveable wage, and they say the economy is getting better. Not sure I believe it one bit.
I've been around awhile, and when I think back on what a person used to get for ten dollar, to how many it takes these days to equal it. Its nearly unimaginable. The younger people these days, have no clue. And it sure makes you wonder what it'll be like within just a few years. I know myself, I've worked for $5.15 an hour, to over $25.00 an hour. With only one child at home. It amazes me how families do it. Life hasn't been easy, kind of a rocky road, but I feel fortunate to have what I do, out here in the country.
I don't mind listening to the occasional news, generally I do, but basically our local news, and once in awhile CNN or another world news channel. But there are some topics that honestly just don't grab my attention. Maybe I'm wrong, and should pay more attention to these things, but I must say, sometimes its very difficult. Usually when my husband is home, and has a day off, more often than not, he has one of several news channels on in the back ground while he goes about his day.
And sometimes it seems like it'll drive me crazy hearing it constantly, but occasionally I do pick up on something of interest and importance. But there is so much bad news, negativity, and doomsday information these days, it is hard to keep tuning in. Then the billions upon trillions of money doled out to foreign causes, while our own country continues to become worse off. The prices of food, housing, and necessities continue to rise, people are forced to work for a non-liveable wage, and they say the economy is getting better. Not sure I believe it one bit.
I've been around awhile, and when I think back on what a person used to get for ten dollar, to how many it takes these days to equal it. Its nearly unimaginable. The younger people these days, have no clue. And it sure makes you wonder what it'll be like within just a few years. I know myself, I've worked for $5.15 an hour, to over $25.00 an hour. With only one child at home. It amazes me how families do it. Life hasn't been easy, kind of a rocky road, but I feel fortunate to have what I do, out here in the country.
Tuesday, June 3, 2014
As I See It
It amazes me what people sometimes spend their money on. Our new neighbours recently went to a home improvement store, where my husband works part time, and bought a fire ring. Which is basically a steel ring with stones, that you buy, to set up in your yard. My husband helped them load it into the back of their mini van type
vehicle, thirty-six, 20lb., uniform shaped rocks, and a steel ring. He thought it
would be too much weight for the vehicle, but they made it home. The next day they had it assembled, and yesterday the gravel was delivered to surround it. Apparently they are building some kind of out in the yard patio.
Its strange, over the years out here in the country, we've had bonfires, camp fires, cook out fires, and have never bought anything like that. I guess since I'm basically an old fashioned, down to Earth person, I believe in doing things the old way, with minimal expense. That outfit had to have cost them a few hundred dollars, I'd think. And back when we used to have fires, my then husband got an old tractor trailer wheel rim, and the grate off of an old round barbecue. This worked satisfactorily, you could lay food right on the grill, or put it in a pan and set it on top.
If you just wanted coals, you could remove the grill, and sharpen sticks to roast hot dogs or marshmallows. If you wanted an old fashioned bonfire to sit around and drink, or roast hot dogs or marshmallows, you chose a different spot. If you wanted a pit to roast a pig, you set the tractor trailer wheel rim aside, and dug down beneath it. It worked well, whatever kind of fire you wanted, and required little expense.
But then, I suppose I am, and live, in a far simpler fashion than most people. I don't need a lot of stuff, fancy gadgets, and the most expensive or complicated possessions. I guess in my opinion, less is more, when a dug pit, a few rocks, and a few sticks of fire wood will work, who needs more? You already have the fresh country air, trees, the trill of song birds, the babble of the creek, and green all around you, what more could you ask for?
Its strange, over the years out here in the country, we've had bonfires, camp fires, cook out fires, and have never bought anything like that. I guess since I'm basically an old fashioned, down to Earth person, I believe in doing things the old way, with minimal expense. That outfit had to have cost them a few hundred dollars, I'd think. And back when we used to have fires, my then husband got an old tractor trailer wheel rim, and the grate off of an old round barbecue. This worked satisfactorily, you could lay food right on the grill, or put it in a pan and set it on top.
If you just wanted coals, you could remove the grill, and sharpen sticks to roast hot dogs or marshmallows. If you wanted an old fashioned bonfire to sit around and drink, or roast hot dogs or marshmallows, you chose a different spot. If you wanted a pit to roast a pig, you set the tractor trailer wheel rim aside, and dug down beneath it. It worked well, whatever kind of fire you wanted, and required little expense.
But then, I suppose I am, and live, in a far simpler fashion than most people. I don't need a lot of stuff, fancy gadgets, and the most expensive or complicated possessions. I guess in my opinion, less is more, when a dug pit, a few rocks, and a few sticks of fire wood will work, who needs more? You already have the fresh country air, trees, the trill of song birds, the babble of the creek, and green all around you, what more could you ask for?
Tuesday, April 8, 2014
Society "Ills"
I was listening to a popular talk show on television, where they are discussing cyber bullying. It is terrible, what some children, and from what they are saying, particularly young girls, are subjected to, and being horribly humiliated by. Many to the point of suicide. Which brings me again to one of my favourite ills of our society. What ever happened to raising a child up to care about others, not speak ill of others, and above all, if you can't say anything good, keep your mouth shut? That used to be one of my mother's favourite sayings.
I realize the Internet has been a huge help to our society, but when it is used in good ways. When people do not seriously think about what they put out there, from which there is no "getting it back," or deleting it, is when it can become a very bad thing. Others should not have to suffer, just because some didn't have the proper "fetchin' up."
My mother was a wise woman, and out of her four children, most of us grew up with a modicum of decency to those around them. I, in turn, tried my darnedest to bring my daughter up as a caring, considerate, respectful, and productive member of society. She, in turn, is doing her best to do the same for her young child. I know it is not easy in this morally lax, over 18 material-laden world, where too many know too much way too soon. And in many cases, about all the wrong stuff.
But just because you are surrounded by the wrong things, or people, doesn't mean you have to follow in their foot steps or act like they do. We are all born with a brain, some of us use it more than others, but all are allowed to use them. Respect for our elders and authority figures, consideration and thoughtfulness for others, and manners should never be allowed to fall by the way side. And you are never too young, or too old, to utilize these traits, or instil them in your young.
Just my opinion, out here in the country, where we aren't subjected to quite as many bad manners, but are not entirely exempt.
I realize the Internet has been a huge help to our society, but when it is used in good ways. When people do not seriously think about what they put out there, from which there is no "getting it back," or deleting it, is when it can become a very bad thing. Others should not have to suffer, just because some didn't have the proper "fetchin' up."
My mother was a wise woman, and out of her four children, most of us grew up with a modicum of decency to those around them. I, in turn, tried my darnedest to bring my daughter up as a caring, considerate, respectful, and productive member of society. She, in turn, is doing her best to do the same for her young child. I know it is not easy in this morally lax, over 18 material-laden world, where too many know too much way too soon. And in many cases, about all the wrong stuff.
But just because you are surrounded by the wrong things, or people, doesn't mean you have to follow in their foot steps or act like they do. We are all born with a brain, some of us use it more than others, but all are allowed to use them. Respect for our elders and authority figures, consideration and thoughtfulness for others, and manners should never be allowed to fall by the way side. And you are never too young, or too old, to utilize these traits, or instil them in your young.
Just my opinion, out here in the country, where we aren't subjected to quite as many bad manners, but are not entirely exempt.
Friday, April 4, 2014
Celebrities
The tabloids and media never cease to amaze me. And celebrities in general. There they are touting certain products, organizations, and other stuff, then wonder why they are ostracised by the public, organizations, media, and paparazzi. Go figure-- If you can't walk the walk, then don't talk the talk. They're out there making all kinds of money, something infallibly human happens to them, and they wonder why they are talked about, put down, and shamed.
I, personally, am not a fan of celebrities, period. Some of them when I hear their names, and about their antics on television, I just ask myself, Why? How do these idiots get placed on a pedestal by their fans? Could they do anything dumber, or more stupid? What makes people, or kids, look up to them? Can't they find a better role model somewhere? Although, I realize children are a much different story, they are young, innocent, and not really "clued in" to the harsh realities of life. They have a lot to learn, and hopefully, their parents are up to the task.
Then the way some seem to start out okay, popularity goes to their heads, and they begin to think they can get away with just about anything. And they do. Some of the things they do, ordinary people would be clapped in jail and the key tossed away, but not them. Personally, I feel if they do something wrong, they should sit in jail and do the time, just like any other ordinary mortal. As it is, it seems as though many never learn their lesson, but keep on doing idiotic things.
Why not put 'em behind bars, let them think about their misdeeds for awhile, and hope they come out better people? Forget the just few days discipline, and high and mighty accommodations. Let them see how it really feels, in appropriate surroundings, surrounded by others who've made the same kind of mistakes. If they get a little rough handling, maybe they'll think about their actions more carefully, and responsibly, next time. What makes them so special? Basically, they are the same as everyone else. They just happen to have wanted into the spotlight, and somehow got there.
I'm not saying all celebs are bad, there may be those who do good, and possibly deserve to be looked up to. But, in my opinion, out here in the good ol' country, it seems like there are more who do not. Once again, just my opinion.
I, personally, am not a fan of celebrities, period. Some of them when I hear their names, and about their antics on television, I just ask myself, Why? How do these idiots get placed on a pedestal by their fans? Could they do anything dumber, or more stupid? What makes people, or kids, look up to them? Can't they find a better role model somewhere? Although, I realize children are a much different story, they are young, innocent, and not really "clued in" to the harsh realities of life. They have a lot to learn, and hopefully, their parents are up to the task.
Then the way some seem to start out okay, popularity goes to their heads, and they begin to think they can get away with just about anything. And they do. Some of the things they do, ordinary people would be clapped in jail and the key tossed away, but not them. Personally, I feel if they do something wrong, they should sit in jail and do the time, just like any other ordinary mortal. As it is, it seems as though many never learn their lesson, but keep on doing idiotic things.
Why not put 'em behind bars, let them think about their misdeeds for awhile, and hope they come out better people? Forget the just few days discipline, and high and mighty accommodations. Let them see how it really feels, in appropriate surroundings, surrounded by others who've made the same kind of mistakes. If they get a little rough handling, maybe they'll think about their actions more carefully, and responsibly, next time. What makes them so special? Basically, they are the same as everyone else. They just happen to have wanted into the spotlight, and somehow got there.
I'm not saying all celebs are bad, there may be those who do good, and possibly deserve to be looked up to. But, in my opinion, out here in the good ol' country, it seems like there are more who do not. Once again, just my opinion.
Wednesday, March 12, 2014
At What Cost?
Wow, another catastrophe in our country... The past few years it seems like if it isn't one thing, its another. If not natural disasters, some form of man made ones. The New York City area certainly has seen their share in recent years. I know the rest of the country hasn't been spared, but they've had some doozies, 9-11, various Time Square issues, and others.
Sometimes I have to wonder, such as this gas explosion, have the companies let enough personnel go, those who actually work, that there aren't enough to properly cover all areas that need attention? Are they doing so at the expense of safety, people's lives, and other important issues? I know several years ago, when I was working at a coal fired power plant, the company kept cutting jobs, positions, offering early retirements, and not replacing those who bid out, or left for other jobs.
The line department, affiliated with the plant, was going to cut back from two, to one, the workers who went out to police remote substations, transmission lines, etc. How can that be safe, and why wouldn't two pairs of eyes, as opposed to one, be better? These people had to climb poles, structures in sub stations, and ride around in big trucks, in all weather, and at all times of the day or night. I say, what are they thinking? I realize its all about money, and greed, but where should the line be drawn?
At that time, they had even suggested the reliability of our electric service could eventually suffer. Fortunately, I believe somehow they have done something to improve the quality of our electric source. Out here in the country we used to lose power more frequently, during wind, or thunder storms. We still get the occasional blink, but usually it comes right back on.
Why doesn't management understand that people get tired, overworked, crazy, and lack attention to detail, when doing too much? Particularly when they work long hours, and crazy shifts. We are only human, need a break once in awhile, down time, and enough responsibility to do our jobs, but not to be expected to know everything about everything, all at the same time. People need jobs, unemployment is high, why not hire those in need, at a reasonable wage, and make sure important aspects of important jobs, get done properly?
Sometimes I have to wonder, such as this gas explosion, have the companies let enough personnel go, those who actually work, that there aren't enough to properly cover all areas that need attention? Are they doing so at the expense of safety, people's lives, and other important issues? I know several years ago, when I was working at a coal fired power plant, the company kept cutting jobs, positions, offering early retirements, and not replacing those who bid out, or left for other jobs.
The line department, affiliated with the plant, was going to cut back from two, to one, the workers who went out to police remote substations, transmission lines, etc. How can that be safe, and why wouldn't two pairs of eyes, as opposed to one, be better? These people had to climb poles, structures in sub stations, and ride around in big trucks, in all weather, and at all times of the day or night. I say, what are they thinking? I realize its all about money, and greed, but where should the line be drawn?
At that time, they had even suggested the reliability of our electric service could eventually suffer. Fortunately, I believe somehow they have done something to improve the quality of our electric source. Out here in the country we used to lose power more frequently, during wind, or thunder storms. We still get the occasional blink, but usually it comes right back on.
Why doesn't management understand that people get tired, overworked, crazy, and lack attention to detail, when doing too much? Particularly when they work long hours, and crazy shifts. We are only human, need a break once in awhile, down time, and enough responsibility to do our jobs, but not to be expected to know everything about everything, all at the same time. People need jobs, unemployment is high, why not hire those in need, at a reasonable wage, and make sure important aspects of important jobs, get done properly?
Thursday, February 27, 2014
Aged Reps
So much unrest in the world, how can anyone feel safe? It seems like just about every month you hear about another country having issues with its leadership, abusing or killing its own people, and other horrific things. I guess it just goes to show that some people just shouldn't be in power over others, it goes to their head. It sure makes you wonder how it can be possible to find a "ruler" who will have the best interest of his "people" at heart, and do what is right for them and all concerned.
Personally, I think money plays way too big a part in leadership. For one thing, it takes the average person out of the running, anyone who actually knows what people, other than the rich, go through to exist day to day. Those with significant amounts of money, haven't the slightest idea what it takes, because they have no idea what things cost, just to get by. Besides living on an income they would probably consider pocket change. What is fair about these people basically, buying their way into these positions?
Another thing that bugs me is the age of some representatives. How do they get in these positions at such advanced ages, or remain there until they are too old to be up to date? Personally, I think there should be an age restriction, our poor country needs people who have the drive, energy, and stamina, to keep up with the times, and see things through. Besides having an intelligent head on their shoulders, and the ability to identify problems, and do what it takes to rectify them.
I guess its just another one of the many things I don't understand about our government, big surprise. I really don't feel that most of those presently in there have the best interests of our nation, or its people, foremost in their minds. All the average person has to do is listen to them talk on the television, with all their double talk that really doesn't tell us anything. Here in the country, once again feeling somewhat like a mushroom.
Personally, I think money plays way too big a part in leadership. For one thing, it takes the average person out of the running, anyone who actually knows what people, other than the rich, go through to exist day to day. Those with significant amounts of money, haven't the slightest idea what it takes, because they have no idea what things cost, just to get by. Besides living on an income they would probably consider pocket change. What is fair about these people basically, buying their way into these positions?
Another thing that bugs me is the age of some representatives. How do they get in these positions at such advanced ages, or remain there until they are too old to be up to date? Personally, I think there should be an age restriction, our poor country needs people who have the drive, energy, and stamina, to keep up with the times, and see things through. Besides having an intelligent head on their shoulders, and the ability to identify problems, and do what it takes to rectify them.
I guess its just another one of the many things I don't understand about our government, big surprise. I really don't feel that most of those presently in there have the best interests of our nation, or its people, foremost in their minds. All the average person has to do is listen to them talk on the television, with all their double talk that really doesn't tell us anything. Here in the country, once again feeling somewhat like a mushroom.
Saturday, January 11, 2014
Science
My husband is a die hard Science, History, Discovery Channel, fan, almost to the point of obsession. Myself, I can listen, and even watch, for awhile, but I absolutely cannot listen to it all day long. Or the Business Channels, he is also a big follower of financial information, stocks, gainers, losers, companies going bust, and on and on. When he has a day off, the television is almost entirely tuned to these channels the entire day. I try to busy myself with other things, when he's home, so he can enjoy what he likes during his time off.
The Science Channel, as of late, has had a lot of programming about Aliens, Aliens this, Aliens that... Sure, I can understand his interest in Science, to a point, but a lot of this stuff makes me wonder what is the point? Do these scientists, professors, authors, and researchers, have any idea if any of this is true? Has it happened, for real, or will it happen, how do they know that for sure?
It amazes me how they find these long ago places of import, figures, writings and drawings, holes in the ground, formations, bones, and so on. Do people go digging for this stuff, or just run across it in their travels? Do big organizations pay them to do what they do? Sometimes, I believe my husband missed his calling. He becomes so engrossed in this stuff, I think he should have been a scientist, researcher, or one of those intellectual, investigative, types.
Then the programs portraying huge tsumanis, volcanoes, hurricanes, killer waves, and storms..? I've been around long enough to know such things do happen, but what is the point in trying to pinpoint when? If its bad enough, and sudden enough, how can anyone really hope to prepare for them? As for these gigantic meteors, or asteroids, possibly hitting the Earth, what are the chances our earthly habitat won't eventually be destroyed?
Actually, I am not a big fan of looking for disaster, I feel it will happen soon enough. Regardless, a person can only do so much to prepare, and hope to secure their well being. I feel the doom sayers may have some of the right ideas, but a person can only afford to do so much, because eventually expiration dates come, and the value of stuff runs out. Where do you draw the line? But, I suppose this researching gives these people a job, an income, and in some ways benefits the human race. So, once again, I occupy my little place in the country, wondering why--?
The Science Channel, as of late, has had a lot of programming about Aliens, Aliens this, Aliens that... Sure, I can understand his interest in Science, to a point, but a lot of this stuff makes me wonder what is the point? Do these scientists, professors, authors, and researchers, have any idea if any of this is true? Has it happened, for real, or will it happen, how do they know that for sure?
It amazes me how they find these long ago places of import, figures, writings and drawings, holes in the ground, formations, bones, and so on. Do people go digging for this stuff, or just run across it in their travels? Do big organizations pay them to do what they do? Sometimes, I believe my husband missed his calling. He becomes so engrossed in this stuff, I think he should have been a scientist, researcher, or one of those intellectual, investigative, types.
Then the programs portraying huge tsumanis, volcanoes, hurricanes, killer waves, and storms..? I've been around long enough to know such things do happen, but what is the point in trying to pinpoint when? If its bad enough, and sudden enough, how can anyone really hope to prepare for them? As for these gigantic meteors, or asteroids, possibly hitting the Earth, what are the chances our earthly habitat won't eventually be destroyed?
Actually, I am not a big fan of looking for disaster, I feel it will happen soon enough. Regardless, a person can only do so much to prepare, and hope to secure their well being. I feel the doom sayers may have some of the right ideas, but a person can only afford to do so much, because eventually expiration dates come, and the value of stuff runs out. Where do you draw the line? But, I suppose this researching gives these people a job, an income, and in some ways benefits the human race. So, once again, I occupy my little place in the country, wondering why--?
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