I do believe some thoughtlessness is brought about by rushing, doing too much, and not taking time to consider the consequences of our actions. I suppose many are just self-centered, think the world revolves around them, and simply don't have that extra minute to slow down long enough to do a simple kindness. How long does it take to open a door for someone, wait a few seconds for someone to pass, or any other number of simple acts of decency? Not that long, and slowing down a little wouldn't hurt many of us.
There is nothing so important that consideration for others shouldn't at least cross our minds. But you see it every day, those who are too hurried to hold a door, or say thank you, or you're welcome. Or even those who walk as slowly as possible behind you when you are backing up in a parking lot. Sometimes it makes you wonder why they value their own well-being so little. What if you failed to look behind you, and just reversed? Would it be such a small deal then? I think not, they or their kin, would probably sue for negligence.
But would it be your fault? I don't suppose that would matter. Without a doubt it wouldn't be theirs, even if their actions caused the mishap. Particularly if they were no longer around to explain their own carelessness. Or even those who tear into a space you were waiting for in a parking lot. Is it because they have good insurance, and consider themselves above harm? I guess I'll never know, or understand, the actions of many. That is why I live in the country, where I see less people, and only occasionally come into contact with the carelessness of the masses.
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